Is it offensive to display Buddha heads as decoration? The short answer is yes. But to explain why and how this is becoming so problematic in Western society, in particular, the wellness industry, I want to share a story about how a spa responded to my communication of such an instance.
The spa using defaced Buddha heads as art
A few months ago I visited a spa in the Midlands that had on display a number of defaced Buddha heads. I was wondering through the corridor to the main spa area and found two long walls filled with these defaced Buddha heads.
As soon as I saw them I was shocked and upset – at that moment I caught my breath. I had just walked through the door and my jaw dropped in shock.
There were two walls were lined with decapitated and defaced Buddha’s heads. They were displayed there as ‘art’, nestled into alcoves with atmospheric lighting above.
These Buddha’s heads had had cans of paint poured over them so they dripped down their faces. It looked like blood. There was something very eerie and violent about the display. It was just so weird to see when I was dressed in a robe ready for a spa day.
It was at the very least a distasteful display. But really it was a deeply offensive act to Buddhists. Defacing Buddha heads in the name of ‘art’ like this is a violent display that reeked of religious discrimination.
Why is a Buddha statue like this offensive?
Imagine that display had been the heads of Jesus? Or any other religious figure or a culture’s God? To display a religion’s holy figure in a decapitated state is distasteful. To display a religion’s holy figure defaced in the name of art is offensive. To use a religion’s holy figure as decoration is offensive.
It was shocking to have Buddha heads on display like this, and even more so totally unsuitable for a spa – a place of calm, restoration, and peace.
The defaced, decapitated Buddha heads at the spa
What I couldn’t understand is why a spa would display these defaced Buddha heads. A spa is supposed to be a place of relaxation and peace. And yet here was a violent display of an entire religion’s founder and spiritual icon. It’s hardly peaceful for Buddhists to see such a display.
What’s worse is that most spas in the West take their wellness practices from the East. It is disingenuous for a place like this to not only be appropriating practices from other cultures but to be disrespecting the very regions and cultures they come from.
I spent my entire stay at this spa and hotel feeling deeply disturbed. I contemplated going home, but I tried to talk myself into thinking it was an innocent mistake. We spoke to the duty manager there at the time and he agreed with us but it was not for him to decide on decor.
I contacted their head office and the response from them was shocking. They deemed the defaced, decapitated Buddha heads as ‘art’ therefore my offence was my own. They further said that as I was the only person who had complained it was not a problem. I still can’t believe that this was an actual response from a business, it was so unprofessional. They even double-down when I replied with a more detailed explanation about how disturbing, discriminatory and racist this was. They would not even enter dialogue with me about the Buddha heads. They shut me down and made me feel like a trouble-maker.
I accept that we have a long way to go in this country in terms of reaching racial and religious equality. I understand that cultural appropriation is so deeply embedded in our consciousness that it can be hard to hear when we are confronted with the reality that what we take for granted or deem acceptable, is actually painful for marginalised groups of people. What I find surprising is just how adamant this spa was that they had the right to be religious discriminatory.
Eventually, I got in touch with a local Buddhist monk. He was able to get involved and spoke with the spa hotel. He was able to explain why their display was offensive and they agreed to remove the offensive Buddha heads.
I’m glad that the Monk was able to speak to them and that they removed the heads. But I am surprised that they still refused to speak to me about this, despite me expressing how upsetting it was.
So why am I writing about this now?
Well, I’ve had a few people get in touch and ask me for further details since sharing this story on my Instagram a few months ago. Several people wanted to know what happened, and other people wanted more details on why it was offensive to display these Buddha heads as it was something they had not come across before.
Buddha is not for decorative purposes
The act of decapitating a Buddha’s head is a violent act even if you see it as just a statue. Buddha is the holy figure of the Buddhist religion. The depiction of Buddha is for spiritual reverence, guidance, and inspiration.
In Buddhist societies, you will find that statues and pictures of Buddha will be elevated, placed in a high position, as something you look up to and respect.
History of decapitated Buddha heads
There is a history where the decapitation of Buddha heads were used as an act of war in order to destabilise a Buddhist society.
You can see evidence of this in Ayutthaya in Thailand, the ancient capital city. Several hundreds of years ago the Burmese army invaded Ayutthaya and ransacked the city. One such act of ransacking was decapitating statues of Buddha.
Today at the ruins of Wat Mahatat you will see rows of decapitated Buddha statues, and you will probably recognise the infamous Buddha head caught beneath growing tree roots.
Seeing an image of Buddha’s head being disrespected is a painful sight for many Buddhists. It is rooted in a history of violence, and is deeply upsetting. The act of decapitating a Buddha head is rooted in colonialism and war.
Marginalising religious minorities in the West
Using images of Buddha minimises the experiences of Buddhists. In many Western countries, Buddhism is a minority religion. Their practices are often little known or understood by mainstream society.
When you take something sacred from a minority group and strip it of its meaning it becomes an act of oppression.
Cultural appropriation causes suffering to marginalised groups. Can you imagine what it feels like to live in a country where you suffer daily microaggressions against you, where you grow up having your cultural practices at home sneered at, or joked about, to be the victim of hate? And then, THEN that same dominant group takes parts of your culture and wears, eats, displays them as something they now think is cool.
It is painful.
As the dominant group, we have a responsibility to acknowledge the lived experiences of those who are marginalised. We have a duty to recognise cultural appropriation and religious discrimination. The very least we can do is respect the wishes of those who hold something sacred to them.
Hiding behind the concepts of ‘art’ and ‘freedom of speech’ is an act of supremacy, and often marginalises groups that have little opportunity to voice their concerns or live in without fear of further aggression.
Even more so, if we are now using a practice (such is the case with many wellness practices) that has been appropriated from a marginalised group, then we should do whatever we can to respect and honour their wishes.
Should you get rid of your Buddha decoration?
I get it. All over the UK, and the West at large, you can easily find Buddha statues of all kinds for sale in your local shops, departments stores, even garden centres. Many of you may own a Buddha statue without realising the significance of it.
Of course, it’s entirely up to you what you do next. But my recommendation is this:
– If you would like to own a depiction of Buddha or any holy figure from another religion, please treat it with respect and reverence. Buddha is a source of inspiration for peace.
– Buddha is supposed to be displayed high up, or in a place that is respectful. That is, try not to place Buddha on the floor as that is seen as dirty. Likewise don’t display Buddha in a bathroom – again the connotations are negative.
– Many Buddhists feel uncomfortable seeing Westerners ‘wearing’ depictions of Buddha. So Buddha on clothing and jewellery is generally a no-no.
There has been a trend in this country for decades where we look to the East as something ‘different’, ‘exotic’, ‘other’. And it’s exactly this ‘othering’ that is so dangerous. People of Eastern origin are here, they live here, they are part of our culture, they are part of us. The idea that we can pick up bits of a seemingly foreign world and make it our own is rooted in a long history of colonialism, something I don’t think any of us should be proud of.
It’s not ok to walk into a department store and see rows upon rows of trinkets derived from Eastern cultures and religions, stripped of their meaning, and resold for profit to privileged Westerners.
It’s not ok for Buddhism, or any Eastern religion for that matter, to be used as a means to capitalise on and make white people rich.
At the very least it’s weird and distasteful. At worst it is yet another instance where supremacy is working to destabilise and marginalise groups of people from less represented religions and cultures.
When you take sacred or holy figures, disconnect them from their roots, and sell them as knick-knacks, you are essentially telling an already marginalised group that their beliefs and culture are meaningless and unimportant.
The wellness industry and cultural appropriation
Likewise, the wellness industry needs a reckoning. It’s a billion-pound industry built off the philosophy, cultures and belief systems of the global East. Wellness practitioners need to learn about cultural appropriation and marginalisation. If they are genuine in their practice they can find ways to share their work without harming those from whom they take their work.
I don’t have all the answers, and I’m still learning and listening myself. But we need to start making changes to our way of practicing wellness in a way that honours and respects.
Anything else I should know?
To be honest, there is a lot more to this than I can possibly explain in one go. I have a rudimentary knowledge of Buddhism, and my experience of spending long periods of time in Southeast Asia in the past decade has taught me enough about how to respect Buddha.
What I do know is that whether it’s Buddha or any other spiritual figure. Let’s treat them with respect, and let those from marginalised communities feel safe wherever they go.
Responses and questions
I answered some questions on my Instagram stories when this situation with the spa happened. I’ll share some screenshots below of some of my responses. I also have the entire videos, photos, and responses saved on my Insta bio if you’d like to learn and understand more.
Final thoughts – if there is ever an opportunity where you can speak up and support marginalised communities in this country then I would urge you to do so. You can make a difference.